I chose to move on. Sorry, you can't reply to this topic. We've been dating two plus years, and we find a key is taking vacations. If you marry her, you're marrying into a cult, a mild cult as far as cults go, but a cult nonetheless. Being a doctor's wife is difficult, demanding, and lonely. It means that before anything else, you have to be clear in saying that you want to date a Mormon girl. While I do get to accompany him to various dinners and parties, we hardly ever have time together just us, and when we do, he just wants to relax over dinner and decompress. You will be kept abreast of political changes within the church that regulate your wife's behavior -- you are probably already aware of several rules she follows. The man I started dating 8 years ago, long before med school was in the picture, is disappearing before my very eyes.
I tried my best, every bit of me…. When she had a strict 6: If there was a disagreement, one person was supposed to submit to the other, consult a rulebook that covered almost everything, or turn to a church leader to decide for them. I'll paste a URL with links to all of them at the end of this message. He will have to wait outside if his children marry in the temple. Nothing less will do.
Real love just happens. And by joining I mean become just as fanatic in it as she is All her life she's been taught that she needs to be married in a Mormon temple Wife left when I came out If her family are all Traditional Believing Mormons, they will try to convert you. But what I discovered surprised me. You are the woman of valor eshet khayil sung about by Solomon in Proverbs 31 http: Good for you, good for your husband, and definitely good for your childen. I wish you the best. I think it was Spencer Kimball who counselled that before marriage you should keep your eyes wide open and then after marriage keep your eyes half shut. Twitter did not respond. And your needs essentially have to be silenced a lot of the times.