How could they not? Jess Podcast , tells Bustle. And once you know what you like in bed, you can train a partner or two or three! So if you find out your partner is masturbating, or even catch them in the act, slow down. Here are seven reasons why it doesn't have to be upsetting. Masturbation is really healthy.
2. Sometimes It’s Not Even About Sex
1. It Has So Many Health Benefits
There's a lot in your question and your story, and as always, without more details, I'm going to do my best to respond with ideas that may be helpful. But I want to start by encouraging you to know that you have a right to your feelings even when they conflict with your politics. You say you know that masturbation is healthy. And it's true that we all have the right to sexual expression, including masturbation. But the fact that the way masturbation is happening in your home is upsetting you is absolutely OK, and you are right to want to address it. In the end, the solution may or may not include your boyfriend masturbating less , but that doesn't mean you should ignore your feelings simply because your politics tell you that you "should" be cool with it.
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I have been with my boyfriend for a while, and we have had plenty of sex but he has a hard time finishing. We have each done research online, and looked into switching condoms, lubes, taking supplements and more. He often says that he used to masturbate very regularly and thinks that he may have become desensitised. The frustration is taking a toll on him and it would be so nice to find something that will help him. Unless you need to become pregnant tomorrow, it is really not. Many people think there is only one right pattern to follow for lovemaking: a bit of foreplay followed by a session of intercourse that should lead to climaxing for both partners — ideally, at the same time.
Sometimes when you're hungry, you just want a good steak. Maybe you even need a steak. You go to the market, you get a good cut of meat, you make your own marinade and tenderize the meat. You put it on the grill and make some potatoes in the oven. It's a process, but it's worth it for the end result. Other times, you say ,"Fuck it," and eat a couple fistfuls of dry cereal while you lie on the couch in sweatpants. They both satisfy your hunger and the result is the same: You ate. But they're very different journeys. Masturbating is often the eating dry cereal on your couch of orgasming.